Tamara Kuselman

I'm an English & Spanish-speaking Counsellor and Coach in Amsterdam working with individuals, couples, and groups. I specialize in relationship patterns, family dynamics, and grief work using tailored systemic, somatic, and creative approaches.

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In this practice you'll explore what matters most to you - whether individually or as a couple - and develop stronger, more fulfilling relationships with yourself and others.

How do I work

Individual Work

Discovering your values, needs, and what truly matters to you through Transactional Analysis to understand power dynamics and fixed roles in relationships, your Life Script, Family Constellations to see how is the Balance in your system, and parts work to explore different aspects of yourself that many times are in conflict. We rehearse potential scenarios to practice new ways of being in relationships, family dynamics, grief, and life transitions.

Couples Work

Building stronger communication and connection using Transactional Analysis (Ego States, Life Positions, Drama Triangle), NVC to handle conflict responsibly so you're heard. We apply these tools to your current challenges to navigate stress and build deeper understanding.

Creative &Somatic approaches

Somatic work with visualizations and breathing, observational practices, writing exercises exploring the history of your life, relationship to money, symptoms, or other themes. Arts-informed methods that reveal insights beyond traditional talk therapy.

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The sessions

Individual

Online or in Amsterdam

60’

70€+VAT

Special price for low income

Couples

Online or in Amsterdam

90’

90€+VAT

Special price for low income

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Testimonials

“Tamara was highly involved in my process. She was extremely attentive, present and active during our sessions. I could feel her readiness and professionalism at how she conducted the sessions, which made me feel secure and well taken care of.  Her professionalism and calmness were contagious and made the experience highly rewarding.”

María Agustina R.

“The process was excellent, her questions were the key to finding my own path, it opened the doors for me to start a super deep process which I was able to sustain both on a personal, family and professional level. It was highly positive, highly recommended, with warmth and respect in the process and with the support that was needed. I loved working hand in hand with Tamara, each meeting had something magical.”

Mariana P.

It has helped me focus on certain issues and pay attention to ways to reverse distressing situations. The coach generously offered herself and the experience was very valuable.​

Martin L.

Contact me.

tamara@kuselmancounselling.com


(+31) 613 056407

Tolstraat 84 1J. 1073 SE Amsterdam